It’s time to bring people around you who you feel secure with and reaffirm your circle of love…then from that place of emotional stability we can embark on the arduous task of sorting out how we really feel about what happened.

Then planting what I call “a new normal,” because the old normal is gone. You’ll never be able to get that back again. It’s very, very important that you begin to replant a new normal. New traditions in the family. New ways of expressing the family. This is a huge task that you will spend many many years trying to do.